Dating taking back an ex boyfriend
Then step 2 is that you should let him know how things he used to say and do felt.
You can just mention it offhand and phrase it in a way that says that you appreciate that side of him because most guys don’t have that ability but he does.
When I work with guys, I put it to them like this: There is no such thing as her “just knowing” how you feel or that it “should be obvious”.
Truth be told, this isn’t a guy problem, it’s a human problem – it can be easy to assume that the other person knows how we feel… So what ends up happening is the guy feels like it’s obvious that you know he loves you. or that she should know already and that it would feel forced or fake if they said something that they felt was obvious.
So women see one set of images of “ideal men” and men see a different set.
I’ve always known that he’s not the romantic type but in the beginning of the relationship, he always used to say sweet things at unexpected times to give me butterflies, he used to take me out to romantic dinners, etc.
If you phrase it like he has a special talent or ability, he’ll want to express that side of himself with you.
Guys want to be perceived as having abilities and skills.
They also have gushing pussy-whipped characters that ooze with love and desperation, which communicates the message that weak, undesirable men are the ones that use words to express their interest and love. On the other hand, it’s the movies made for women that feature dialogue-heavy leading men who may be greedy and selfish, but always eventually articulate their feelings for the woman.
They exchange witty banter and express themselves through words and action.
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So step 1 is realizing that it’s not that he’s doing anything wrong or intending to do anything wrong, he just doesn’t understand your experience yet.