My best friend is dating the girl i love
She may tell you that she looks at you like a brother or that she’s happy in her current relationship.But know that you have planted a seed that may very well grow into something special later on.With no pressure over her head she is more likely to listen to you with an open heart. I know you have a man already and I support you completely.I love being your best friend and I just needed to let you know.”You have put no pressure on her and yet by being so heartfelt you have invited her to open up about her feelings as well.
-Stephen Dear Stephen, This kind of thing happens all the time.There are a few different things that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out "my ex is dating my friend! Here was a woman who I thought was my good girlfriend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc. What they are doing is really uncool and unacceptable. Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger.