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I will say, though, that compared to a lot of other recreational drugs out there -- including alcohol -- the negative side effects of weed pale significantly in comparison. Rather, its addictive qualities are similar to that of alcohol: Not everyone will get addicted, but some people will if they abuse it. So why, then, would I have a problem with my boyfriend smoking pot when I am cool with its recreational use?I told him that he sometimes hurts my feelings, and can be a little rough around the edges. I told him I was hurt that he chose to get high over being with me. I told him I was waiting for a sign for him to show me he wouldn’t be getting high constantly for the rest of his life, but he came up short. This is his decision and his life, and he can do what he wants with it, regardless of what I think.He told me I provoke him, and accused me of just being "extra grumpy" when he smokes. I was angry he couldn’t see how he was affecting me. My only hope for him now is that he will get the help he so desperately needs.
My boyfriend and I went away for the weekend after Thanksgiving. I know how delicate the word "recovery" is, and I don’t use it lightly.
Let me get this out of the way immediately: I am not against the use of recreational marijuana. You can't tell me weed isn't addictive when I have seen it with my own eyes.
You can disagree with me, but I’m not going to lecture anyone on the myths associated with pot or why our states should legalize it. I understand it's not addictive in the same way cigarettes are or heroin is.
Given, most people don’t walk around with a sign on their backs saying “Hey I’m addicted to heroin” or “I can’t leave my house without taking a bong toke.” Sometimes it’s obvious they’re addicted and some people just want to help a person “change.” That’s the last thing I would do. I dumped my ex-boyfriend because he had no motivation.
Being 22 and having absolutely no motivation to do anything but test video games from 5 p.m. four days a week was just unacceptable (and kind of scary). Now this kid was what my mom would call a “pot smoker.” He smoked weed everyday, but it didn’t bother me.